What women find attractive is a confident man - and you can be him Quickly shed those fears and feel at ease with women you find attractive Do you know what women find attractive? Do dating and flirting and enjoying yourself seem meant for other people? Many people find flirting and dating quite scary. Of course you want to be confident and relaxed, but sometimes you can get so anxious for everything to go well that you just tense up and get overcome with self-consciousness. And that leads to awkwardness and embarrassment, and then it's not exactly easy to enjoy yourself, is it? And it's not just that this makes it hard for you. It presents a problem for the women you meet too. Women are much more likely to respond positively to a guy who's relaxed and at ease with himself and with them. (And remember, women find first encounters daunting too, however brave a face they put on it!) But how can you train yourself to naturally be what women find attractive and just let yourself relax around them? Train your brain to escape the strain and enjoy new encounters.