How to text girls- Deadly "Text messages mistakes that kill attraction It can be really frustrating when you get the number of a girl (who seems to like you) only to see that she goes "cold" and becomes "uninterested" after a text messages exchanges. Then, the really natural thing to do is to blame that girl. "She's just a real flake" you may think to yourself. Start thinking like this and you're probably missing out on the fact that the "solution" is a lot easier to fix in your game then you think. Chances are, you may be making those exact same mistakes that other guys are making- and destroying any real chances to get her interested in you.